Monday, 28 December 2015

Your Best Friend Dosen't Seem Like Your Best Friend Anymore

hello again !

You know that when I was younger, around 6-7 years, I really liked a doll and it became my best friend (for that time) whether it was while playing, sleeping or eating, she was with me all the time. I kept her name Alice. I really got use to it and it was my habit to take it everywhere. An year later at Christmas i got a new doll and so being with Alice everywhere was not a habit anymore and slowly i outgrew it.

Same is happening with you. Your friend first really liked and now she doesn't because maybe she found a new one. It can be that if she was really angry in the past or has been through something real serious. by talking you may figure things out and be friends again.

Personally, it happened with me too...Me and my best friend were in a fight and ended up not meeting each other for three weeks..And by luck in our class the only seat empty was next to her and so I sat with her. Slowly we talked, then arguments came in like "you were so irritated all time", "You ignored me", "you insulted me", and then finally she told that she was rude and angry because her grandma was not well and was admitted in hospital which now has really cleared things out...

Now, as I was saying that there can also be a reason that she has found an new friend. Think, think and think with whom your best friend is spending much time..So if this is the reason why he/she is away from you then now what to do,right? It is very simple.
Now you cannot go and just insult your friend in front of the other one with whom she is spending time, it would be very rude, right?
Next, what you CAN do is that you can go and confront your best friend (of course not like "why are you insulting me"). CALMLY, hey_____! You promised me you would come with me in ____.
If she is really being rude to you or insulting you in public, forget it. Move on. Nothing is more important to you than your self respect right? You too start spending time with someone else. For a plus point with someone he/she really admires...only in front of her..
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So here were my ways to improve your friendship (or whatever). Hope they helped you...please see my older post and do follow me...
Love each one of you !
Bye !

New Year Gift Ideas

Hey everyone!
As you all know that New Year is almost here so here are some selected new year ideas which i found while browsing and some of them are really cheap...so enjoy!!!


1.  BANANA MESSAGE..

Well, this was one of the most cheapest gift and which would surely make the person laugh. So for this you need, one or two banana and a marker. Start by writing a sweet warm message for your loved one, and then you now are on the last step, decorate the banana with love signs like xoxo,heart,you etc.
And you are done!!!

2. NIGHTIES..
                      
Well yes warm night suites or nighties are the best to give during winters as they ensure sweet sound sleep for your loved one...you can even go for a robe from marks and spencer.

3. A SWEET TEDDY...
        

This is a bit valentine day stuff but it really brings a smile on a girls face as which girl on earth doesn't like soft and cute teddies? So for this one you need to buy a teddy from a gift shop and a string and a paper (these days chalkboard paper are going very well so you can use that too with a chalk pen).  Just right a sweet message over the paper punch a hole in it and tie it to the teddy with the string!

4.  A RING..
 A ring would do the job, only if you are really ready to shed out money because no girl likes a fake ring given by her loved one unless if she buys it herself or if she really wants. Every girl likes diamond or platinum or gold expensive ring..but you can make it cheaper by giving a gold plated one!

5. A SCARF...

Its winter time...so everybody wants to keep warm so why not bring a scarf! Yes a wooly big scarf would do it..preferably in color white black or pink...this would keep her warm and whenever she would wear it she will remember you!..And if its summer in your place(like Cape town) so you can bring a cotton scarf too as girls actually don't like their skin to get tanned..so scarf is on all rounder!

6. DIY GIFTS...

I guess you were actually waiting for this one...yes you can make diy gifts for her because every girl appreciates the fact that you have taken out time for her and have made something for her just to make her happy... So why not make some quick DIYs? You can see and learn some of the amazing DIYs by copying the link below and pasting it...
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/05/19/45-diy-gift-ideas_n_4442662.html?ir=India&adsSiteOverride=in
Personally my favorite one was the tea wreath...

 7. A 'BEST OUT OF WASTE' CARD...
Yes you read it right, a card made out of waste...all you require is a white sheet, any colured sheet, newspaper, scissors, glue and a marker!
So first, you need to fold the sheet into shape of a card.
Second, you have to cut out a a box of the colored sheet (same shape as of the card) and paste it on the front page of the card.
Third, you have to cut out a tree from the newspaper and a few hearts (it would be best if the cut out has writing over it rather than any picture) and paste it over the colored sheet as shown in the picture as trees are a symbol of good health, so, good health for a happy new year.
Fourth, Inside the card you can write well wishes or poems etc. with colorful markers.
Fifth, stick a red heart at the last page (the backside of the card) to show love and your name written below or above your choice....
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So here were my 7 new year gift ideas (+45 DIY ideas) for yout o bring smile on your sweet heart...hope you liked them and please do subscribe for more posts...:)
Love each one of you !
Happy New Year!